Not everyone is going to love a book, no matter how good the author is. It’s like I’ve always said – not everyone thinks Brad Pitt is hot. Even back in his hay day when he was the universally declared ‘sexiest man alive’ you would never get me to agree.
We are all such unique creatures. God made us that way. The world would be a very dull place if we all had the same tastes. There wouldn’t be room in Hollywood for the likes of both Brad Pitt and Robert Pattinson (still not my cup of tea …), or a space on the bookshelves for both Jane Austen and the Bronte sisters.
I might oscillate between reading historical fiction and contemporary fiction, but there’s a unique theme in my preferences: they’re heavy on the romance, and light on the trauma. I’ve been thinking about why this is, and I think it boils down not just to my personality, but my life experience.
In my opinion, I’ve had too much pain in recent years to be reading about someone else’s. When I read, I want an escape to a happy place. I want the good girl to get the good guy, and live happily ever after. Don’t get me wrong – I love drama. But my nerves can’t take much suspense, and my heart can’t handle getting too close to a character’s emotional pain. I’m the same way with movies. I love romantic comedies (as long as they’re not too silly!) but I steer clear of anything hard hitting like The Green Mile. I was even worried that “The Blind Side” would be too emotional for me (it wasn’t, though I did cry more than I’d like to admit).
I know my life experience must have a lot to do with this, because once upon a time I did like hard hitting, emotional movies. As for my nerves … as a teenager I went through a phase of watching a lot of horror movies, and complained frequently that I couldn’t find a single one that scared me. Nowadays I run a mile away from anything of the sort. I can’t handle anything remotely scary. Have you seen “I Am Legend” staring Will Smith? I do think it is a very good movie. But I have to confess, when I watched it at the movies, I left half way through. I was so stressed I thought I was going to have a heart attack. However, I had to know how it ended, so I watched it on DVD at home one day, knowing I could stop it and take breaks when needed 🙂
So what’s my point here? It’s hard writing book reviews. We can only tell you our opinions on a book, and our opinions are going to be shaped by our tastes, preferences, personality and life experiences. You won’t love a book just because I do, and vice versa. But I hope our reviews give you enough information to make your own decision as to whether you might like a book 🙂
What are your favourite kinds of books? What books do you run a mile from? I’d love to know what our readers are into 🙂
Helen’s favourite genre is historical fiction with a strong romantic element. She also enjoys contemporary romance, chick-lit and YA. She’s not caught up in the spell of fantasy fiction, despite The Faraway Tree series being a strong influence in her childhood.
Helen is currently working on her first book, a Christian young adult novel set between two opposite but equally fascinating places in Australia.
Helen is a strange combination of fiction editor and web strategist. That’s because she loves fiction and the internet – and analytics! A former business analyst and IT support manager, Helen now spends her time parenting her three children as well as running her editing and web agency businesses. As a book reviewer and fiction editor, her one true love and specialty is Christian romance fiction.